Category: news

  • Speaking Ill of the Dead

    Speaking Ill of the Dead

    An honest accounting is a loving act, not a betrayal of someone’s memory, and if we can practice this with the dead it will be easier for us to do it when it matters even more: with the living.

  • Caregiving is a Major Roadblock to Women’s Sexual Freedom

    Caregiving is a Major Roadblock to Women’s Sexual Freedom

    A 55-year-old woman in the United States today is likely to have a preadolescent or adolescent child, as well as aging parents who need help. Between those two sets of caregiving responsibilities and the paid employment she’s likely managing, by the time her day is done she’s pretty wiped out.

  • My First Time – With Scientific American!

    My First Time – With Scientific American!

    I thought I was out of their league. I thought I wasn’t their type. I love being wrong!

  • Remembering Marcia Powell

    Remembering Marcia Powell

    The women of Perryville Women’s Prison remember Marcia Powell, and so must we.

  • Belief and Proof

    Belief and Proof

    A few days ago Brett Stephens published an op-ed piece in the New York Times that began with a very reasonable statement. He said that he had no idea what happened in the room when Dr. Blasey Ford alleges she was attacked, and he points out that, unless we were…

  • Pain and Rage, Anger and Empathy

    Pain and Rage, Anger and Empathy

    Or, Why I Can’t Get Out of Bed After Yesterday’s Kavanaugh Hearings and What I’m Trying To Do About It. Before I say anything else I want to simply express gratitude to Dr. Blasey Ford for testifying yesterday, for telling her story under oath and in public, and for doing…

  • #WhyIDidntReport

    #WhyIDidntReport

    Opting not to report our sexual assaults to the police does not prohibit us from telling our stories in other forums and at other times. . . . Storytelling is a transformative method for driving social change and may get us farther by sparking the kinds of ongoing conversations needed…

  • Three things – 11/20/16: Identity and the election

    Three things – 11/20/16: Identity and the election

    This week I’ve ben thinking a lot about identity and the election. No surprise, I’m sure. Identity politics has been at the forefront of many election analyses in the couple of weeks. Racism, sexism, and heterosexism intersected powerfully in this election, and the voting patterns of whites, and particularly of…

  • Three Things That Helped Me This Morning

    Three Things That Helped Me This Morning

    My initial reactions to Tuesday night were, in order, disbelief, anger, and hopelessness. Over the last couple of days I’ve listened, watched, and participated in a number of conversations about moving forward. Earlier today, I posted the following on Facebook: We’ve come to the point where it’s about “survival” for…

  • No False Choices

    I was reading with interest about the recent vote by California’s legislature to legalize physician-assisted suicide. Just as nobody should be free to take the life of another, nobody should be forced to live in pain when they no longer wish to. Opponents to the bill based their opposition on the concern…